Friday, October 18, 2013

my life

I am going to share about my life.where I grew up ,where I studied,and what I want in my future.

I was born in 03\10\1990.I greaw up in a small village at Sekgutlong in eastern cape province.At home we are 6 I have 5 sisters and 1 brother.I only have 1 parent that is my father.He was married.My mother past away when I was in grade 11 on 2008.I am a lastborn at home.I went to Sekgutlong primary school.Where I did my grade 1,2,3,4,5,and 6.I moved to Mangolong J.S.S. Where I did grade 7,8,and 9.After I passed my grade 9.I moved to Durban.I went to Ferndale C.S.Where I did my grade 10,11,and 12.After my matric which is 2009.I didn't wanted to carry on with my studies.I decided to go to work because of financial problems.On 2011 I moved from Durban to Cape town.Its where I started to change my mind go back to school.I studied at Bolland college doing Ecd level 4 practitioner from 2011 to 2013.I don't drink alcohol,I don't like to have fun with friends and I don't have a child.Thats me.Chrysalis called me I quit at crech because I was want to work in the office.I don't like to teach children

I am here at chrysalis because I want to fulfil my dream.To bring change in my community.To be a role model to the young stars.I want to make a change to those who are around me.I hope chrysalis will change my life.
I am going to write about my life,my childhood and where i come from things that i`ve been through with my family and my love life,my ups side downs and everything about my self that i`m proud of today.

I am Zintle prudence ndlazi.I was in 1994 02 07 in Grootte-schuur hospital dont know the time.i grew up in a small township that is called langa,i live with my mother,2 sisters and their children i am the last born at home.I did not grew up with my father having that love others have with their 2 parents but my mother was there for ever since i was,its not I don't  know my father i do and he is married staying with his wife and his 2 daughters and 1 son who passed away in 2006 in a car accident on his way home coming from a friends house and i`m the last born both side.

In 1997 i was 3 years and it was my first day to go in school,i attended my pre-school in ST ANTHONY at langa near home i spent 3 years in that creche.In 1999 it was my school graduation doing your re-station,singing in front of people,seeing your parents while you were singing and time you are crying but i told my self my mother wont let me go because she love me.


In 2000 it was my first year wearing a full uniform having your school bag in your inside the is your lunch box and i was very exited being in the real school than the creche,but in creche they taught you how to write your name and surname.In that primary school i attended it until my grade 7 i was doing drama,tradition dance,playing netball.In 2006 it was my farewell year and we did`not do it because of the school principal he said we where noty but as the seniors of the school we told our selves we are going to do our matric one day.

In 2007 i was new comer at Langa High school,it is where i saw my self that i have a self confident but any way year where moving and life was going fast.In grade 9 i started to date my boy-friend and we are still dating,in grade 10 and 11 i was noty,smoking in school property,smoking weed and cigarette,bunking classes,doing sleep-overs for my boy-friend but i thank god that i dd`nt drop out of school or getting pregnant in school.In 2011 it was my matric ball and i was 17 years old and it was me who was the youngest in the class but i dd`nt let them to bully me i stood up for my self and i failed my matric because of the things i was doing that time or not listening to the teachers and my mother.

After my matric i started to look for a job because of the circumstances that i had at home and i was the bread winner.In 2013 Chrysalis came with an opportunity for me to change my lifestyle i had in past and build my future for my family and i`m proud of my self.


STORY OF MY LIFE

I AM TRUDY ANN MARAIS.I AM 21 YEARS  OLD.I GREW UP IN GEORGE .I AM THE ELDEST OF MY MOTHER AND FATHER SIDE.I HAVE 2 BROTHERS AND 1 SISTER.

I GREW UP IN A COMMUNITY WITH MANY CULTURES AND DIFFERENT PEOPLE.I STAY WITH MY MOTHER AND 2 YOUNG BROTHERS AND SISTERS.I GREW UP WITHOUT A FATHER BUT EVEN THOU MY FATHER WAS NOT WITH ME AND MY MOTHER SHE PLAY BOTH ROLES IN MY LIFE .I GO TO CRECHE WHEN I WAS 3 YEARS OLD.IT WAS NICE BECAUSE MY MOTHER WERE EVERY AFTERNOON THERE TO COME AND FETCH ME .I GO TO PRIMARY SCHOOL IN GEORGE AT DELVILLE PARK PRIMARY AND MY MOTHER TAKE ME AWAY FROM THERE SO I GO TO TOUWSRANTEN PRIMARY SCHOOL.I REALLY ENJOY PRIMARY SCHOOL BECAUSE IT WAS NOT SO HARD THERE LIKE IN HIGH SCHOOL.I GO TO HIGH SCHOOL IN GEORGE HIGH AND THEN I LEFT TO GO AND STAY WITH MY FATHER IN MOSSELBAY AND I FINISH MY MATRIC AT SAO BRAS SECONDARY.I FINISH MY MATRIC IN 2010.

I LOVE MYSELF AND I LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM BECAUSE THERE NO ONE THAT IS ME.I HAVE LEARN IN LIFE THAT NO MATTER HOW HARD LIFE IS YOU CAN OVERCOME YOUR PROBLEMS.I HAVE LEARN IN MY LIFE THAT THOSE MOUNTAINS I WAS CLIMB THOSE WERE THE OBSTACLES IN MY LIFE AND I HAVE OVER COME THAT.

MY RIVER OF MY LIFE

I am going to talk or share about my life which is called a river of my life,i am going to write about my ups and downs of my life starting when i was young up until now and i am going to talk about what i wish to have in future.

I was born in East London on 1991-09-04 i came to cape town when i was eight years old,i have two brothers and one older sister i am the last born. in 2000 i was doing my grade 2 in Nomsa Maphongwana primary school,in 2005 i went to high school in Harry Gwala Secondary school.In high school i was know as a singer i love to sing music is my life on 2008 i failed my grade 11 i was angry at myself because i was concentrating in music to much i even went to Joburg in the middle of the year that time i have to write the test but i wanted to go then i failed but i told my self i wont give up i will keep believing to my self i will push my self because i know i am not cleaver but i.m a hard worker  then i study and i pass my grade 11 then in 2010 i was doing my matric and i pass matric on 2011 i study at MSC BUSINESS COLLAGE i was doing travel and tourism because i wanted to be a flight attendant but i didn't make it i drop up at school because of the finance it was so pain full to me but i keep on believing that everything is gonna be all right i must keep pushing and god is with me  then on 2012 i wanted to study but my father didn't have a money for my registration fee which is R3000 in CPUT then i decide to go to Joburg to my boyfriend then i came back pregnant i was afraid of my parents especially my father and i told myself my life has ended and even now i can see my father didn't accepted it.i failed my parents especially my father.

I apply in chrysalis academy then a got accepted it was most exciting part of my life a big gift i never hard thanks to my brother and god give me another chance in my life and i want to go and study next year or work but the main thing is to study so that i can make my parents be proud of me and god said keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for.keep on seeking,and you will find.keep on knocking,and the door will opened to you.for everyone who asks,receive.everyone who seeks,finds.and to everyone who knocks,the door will be opened so my door is opened for me at chrysalis academy and its the beginning of my brighter life.

STORY OF MY LIFE

I AM TRUDY ANN MARAIS.I AM 21 YEARS  OLD.I GREW UP IN GEORGE .I AM THE ELDEST OF MY MOTHER AND FATHER SIDE.I HAVE 2 BROTHERS AND 1 SISTER.

I GREW UP IN A COMMUNITY WITH MANY CULTURES AND DIFFERENT PEOPLE.I STAY WITH MY MOTHER AND 2 YOUNG BROTHERS AND SISTERS.I GREW UP WITHOUT A FATHER BUT EVEN THOU MY FATHER WAS NOT WITH ME AND MY MOTHER SHE PLAY BOTH ROLES IN MY LIFE .I GO TO CRECHE WHEN I WAS 3 YEARS OLD.IT WAS NICE BECAUSE MY MOTHER WERE EVERY AFTERNOON THERE TO COME AND FETCH ME .I GO TO PRIMARY SCHOOL IN GEORGE AT DELVILLE PARK PRIMARY AND MY MOTHER TAKE ME AWAY FROM THERE SO I GO TO TOUWSRANTEN PRIMARY SCHOOL.I REALLY ENJOY PRIMARY SCHOOL BECAUSE IT WAS NOT SO HARD THERE LIKE IN HIGH SCHOOL.I GO TO HIGH SCHOOL IN GEORGE HIGH AND THEN I LEFT TO GO AND STAY WITH MY FATHER IN MOSSELBAY AND I FINISH MY MATRIC AT SAO BRAS SECONDARY.I FINISH MY MATRIC IN 2010.

I LOVE MYSELF AND I LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM BECAUSE THERE NO ONE THAT IS ME.I HAVE LEARN IN LIFE THAT NO MATTER HOW HARD LIFE IS YOU CAN OVERCOME YOUR PROBLEMS.I HAVE LEARN IN MY LIFE THAT THOSE MOUNTAINS I WAS CLIMB THOSE WERE THE OBSTACLES IN MY LIFE AND I HAVE OVER COME THAT.

the river of my life

I'm gonna talk about the story my life and what i went  through i also tell u about what i want in life.My name is Mpho my surname is matolong i was born in 1992 my mothers name is Stilani my fathers name is xolile and i got one sister and two brothers they names are Lilitha.siyabonga and Wandile on my mothers side we are two and my fathers side  we three .


In in 199something i started pre-school at ST ANTHONY after creche i started my primary school in Zonnebloem girls until grade7 it was my farewell year but our  principal  did`nt do our farewell i was very disappointed and down.I attended my  high school in PEAK VIEW SECONDARY in bridge town my favorite are cooking,like having fun,writing,reading and shopping favorite sport is swimming,growing up i was a spoil brat still i am because my mother/boyfriend spoil me and i also spoil my self to the foo-list.At the age of 16 i started to become independent i moved out at home i did'nt just move out i had no choice because lot of things was  happening so i decided to move out .This past few years was not easy for me it was hard and painful ,last year December my cousin died i felt down hopeless not the fact that she passed away everything to me she was a friend  she lifted me up when i was weak she was the one that keeps me going i even gave up on my dreams  but here i am i stay with my boyfriend its now 5 years 2013 i started working at Ratanga Junction ,on the 7 September i came to Chrysalis Academy to archive my goals and lot of things was happening so i wanted to be away and i want to become a better person in life i want Chrysalis to help to let go of the past.

In 2014 I want to study and part time i want to become a chef or a social worker.

my river of life zodwa

I'm going to talk about my life,the  things that had happened in my life.what i have been through in life,i am talking about my ups and my downs.And i even going to talk about what i want in life,what i want to be and the kind of job that i want in future.

My name is zodwa i was born on the 22/03/1993 at cofimvaba hospital in eastern cape.
Firstly i like the way  i am because i know that i am special and unique.some people out there adore me same applies to me i love them.Sometimes i just asks myself why did God bring me to this world but this is the question that i understand maybe there are other people who also asks themselves the same thing but i can only say to answer my question God created and brought me to this World for the purpose.He would not create me if he does  not love me.I am this kind of person who grew up with out her parents and this kind of person who get hurtled easy.we are the 5 children of married parents I'm the last born.We are all sisters i have no brother.My parents died when i was at the age of 3 years by car accident so i grow up with my eldest sister and her husband.They are now my parent because they do everything for me thou they have their kids but i'm also part of them,they are always auxilliry to me,they make sure that i do not go to bed with empty stomach.they are my everything that's how i call them,my bright shining stars their middle and that the kind of parents i have   .and i am  very proud of them,i love them very much.Things out there happened and these things hurt a lot,people disappointing their parents and their loved ones but i just want to thank God for being the person i am and i love myself for that.In the year of 2010 i was involved in a car accident my bones were fractured,both arms and the collar bone but i survived.During the year of 2011 i was doing metric and i could not go to the farewell because of financial problems but i blame no one because i know the situation of my home and i know that somewhere somehow God will make a plan,he will get me out of this.And the  only thing that can help me is to pray in the main thing.At the  beginning of this year i was doing nothing but someone help me a taught me about chrysalis so i decided to came to chrysalis i am now still here but next year  i am looking forward to study  fether.i already applied at S.T Georges College in Port Elizabeth for the paramedic course.



Due to my conclusion in 2015 i want find myself a regular job and after i got a job i want to build the home of my own then the other things will came after i  see that i can stand on my own meaning that when i am independent.

my river life

My name is Phumeza i was born on 22 of august 1989 i  grow up with a loving family who always there fore me. I am a last born in my family I have two sisters one brother. While I was growing up I was living with my granny on Eastern Cape my mom was living on Cape Town with my father. I attend my primary school on at a school called Umyezo primary school .My family was loving family to me because they were showing me there full support.

In 1999 my life change because now it was a moment to go on in life and face up any challenges in life the best part was that now I am growing faster I need to learn more and over come any obstacles in my way because it was the moment now can I stay away from my family to stay with other people that not raise me . by 2000 I face a big problem in my life because i loose someone was very close to me my uncle to me it was very hard because he was a breadwinner in my home .he was the only one who made me the way I am to day because he show life he was my every thing I want in life. 2006 I lost someone that I love in my life my father that made my life go in a difficult situation because I lost hope that there will be no one who will take good care of me but my mother was there throughout that difficulties. I passe my matric in 2007 but i didn't study further because of financials problems and my mother was not working at all. In 2009 God blessed me with a beautiful daughter that i love so much. In 2011 I apply in Chrysalis Academy and my application was successful, I was fortunate to be chosen in many applicants.

Am looking forward to my life in 2014. I want to get a better job so that i could support my family and i want to make my mother proud because she means a lot to me. I want to lift up my standard of living, I want to be a good example in my community as well as the next coming generation that can follow in my foot steps that am taking now. I want to gain more skills and teach other people that they can also make it with any challenges they are facing in their lives. 

lovely me

hey im wanique janklaas from knysna.im born on the 15.10.1994.im 19 years old.im the eldest from my mothers side.                                                                                   i crew up in a small place called bracken hill.my mothers works at sasol harkerville.and she is 45 years old.my brother is 4 years old.                                                                                                                                        qoutes                                                                                                         the journey of a thousand miles must begin with asingle step.                                                                                                                                         it isnt where u come from,its where youre going that counts.                                                                        the can only change from within.those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.                                                                                                                          wanique janklaas                             

My river of my life

My name is Alicia and my surname is Ludtz.I am 19 years and i live in Knysna i have two brothers my mother name is Rachel and father name is David.I am a lovely person like to encourage people and children.

I was born 1994 on the 28 of March.In 2001 my first year i go to school by Rheenendal Primary I was in grade1 that day I was very excited I was so small I will never forget that day that was a good feeling.In 2007 I was in grade 7 the best I will never ever forget there was a boy he was in grade 9 I was looking him ever day he was the one who make my day at school.My sadness was went my grandfather dead he was like a father for me he dead in 2009 I mis him alot but life goes on.My matric in 2012 that was the excellent year for me and I past my matric with a diploma and my mommy was so proud of me my farewell was 26 september by simbola I will never forget thatb day that was the best I ever have and my mommy is my rolmodel she is the best person and she always guide me and courage.My further is he by Chrysalis to fine myself and to be a strong lady.

Keep on believing, be the girl you want to be,never give up on your dreams.And remeber what doesn't challenge you won't change you..........












































































































































































































































 







































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































lovely me

hey im wanique janklaas from knysna.im born on the 15.10.1994.im 19 years old.im the eldest from my mothers side.                                                                                   i crew up in a small place called bracken hill.my mothers works at sasol harkerville.and she is 45 years old.my brother is 4 years old.                                                                                                                                        qoutes                                                                                                         the journey of a thousand miles must begin with asingle step.                                                                                                                                         it isnt where u come from,its where youre going that counts.                                                                        the can only change from within.those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.                                                                                                                          wanique janklaas                             

Rhodenes river of life!

I am Rhodene De'niq Williams a determine lady who was born on the 19th of December 1992.In Eben Donges Hospital now known as Worcester Hospital.I have been living in Worcester ever since.

The story of my life  determine who and what I am today.It was not always smooth but through the grace of God I'm here today. I grew up with a single parent, my mother and two elder brothers and a younger sister. I started school in 1999 and in 2010 I matriculated at Worcester Secondary School. Life is not always easy but I have made It through out the best of my ability. I know what it is to go to bed with an empty stomach and that wasn't my end only a way forward. In 2010 after school I went to work at a factory called Rainbow Chickens as a general worker. It was tough but I wanted to help my mother, now both of my brothers are independent and my mother is supporting me and my sister financially. I heard about Chrysalis in November 2012 and I sent my application straight away and was accepted in September 2013. I'm currently busy here and want to have a better future for me and my family.

I'm looking forward to my Graduation on the 30th November knowing I will walk away with so much that I have learned and gained with success. I want to be a successful office administrator. Life is not always easy but I try to make the best of it. I believe what we learn, and we can only learn by doing it as a person.



    

    

No matter how big your storms are there will always be sunshine

It started all on the 05/08/1989 when my mother gave birth to me and I was born  in Mitchell's Plain, Lentegeur day clinic at 2:20. We then stayed in Mitchell's Plain until I was 6 years old then we moved to my mother's birth place, Prince Albert in the Karoo that's where the story of my life started.

In 1996 I went to school at Prince Albert Primary. I got diplomas from grade 1 up to grade 7. I then decided to go to Bridgton Senior Secondary school in Oudtshoorn for standard 7. I had a good year there, but missed home to much, so I decide to finish the year there and then went back to Prince Albert. I then went to school at Zwartberg High. In standard 9, we went to Cape Town for a weekend with the school, we then visited Robben Island, Table mountain and the Holocaust museum. It was a good experience for me and I finished matric in 2007 at Zwartberg High that was the happiest day of my life because everything worked out just the way I wanted it to be. I was so nervous about the end exams but finally did good and just a week after I finished with my exams my grandmother suddenly passed away and that was the saddest part for our family because she was the pillar in the family. In 2009 I felt pregnant and I was very excited about my child that is growing in me and I wished that it would be a boy, but then on the 22 November 2009 at 1:10 I gave birth to a beautiful 7 month old girl. On 3 months my daughter, Zonay got very sick and the doctors didn't know what was wrong with her. Six months later they found out that she had a heart problem and on 8 months they operated her at Red Cross Hospital and the saddest part of all I turned 21 on the day she was operated. That was not the end of the world for as long as my daughter get out of the theatre alive and healthy. Today she is the most precious thing that happened in  my life and I love her so much.

In 2013 I started to look after my grandfather before he was diagnosed with cancer. I enjoyed it a lot to stay with him, he teached me a lot of things that I don't know. Then cancer spread all over his body and that was the worst time of my life. I always ask myself how can a strong person like him get sick and so sick that he cant do anything for himself, so myself and my sister was doing everything for him. He got worst very fast and died after 5 months suffering of pain. I miss him so much and if it wasn't for him that forced me to come to Chrysalis then I wouldn't be here today. And that is the story of my life and don't tell your god how big your storms are, tell your storms how big your GOD is.

My River of Life

My name is Aphiwe Samantha Jacobs, 24 years old. Living in a small town separated near Cape Town. A life can change anytime when unexpected and the worst can happen. You have to stay strong because what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger and that's how I learned to put things behind me.

I am Aphiwe Samantha Jacobs, I was born in 1989 August 07 in a placed called Worcester. I live with my mom and my older brother, my mom is a housewife and my brother is not working at the moment. I lived with my mother, father, my brother and I'm the last born of four. My father that  time was a truck driver and he will even spend the longest period of 6 months not at home but he would be in contact with my mother just to hear on how we are  doing, he loved us so much especially my brother because he was the one and only son he had. I grew up in the location went to primary up until I was done with the primary, went to multiracial  high school in 2003 and that was my first year in high school. In 2003 April 11, I lost my father in a truck accident that cost him his life and left us fatherless. I didn't get a chance to get to know my father that much, i didn't even have a bond with  sometimes i even miss him but that's all life, that's were my life started to change. Four years after that we went to the location high school because my mother couldn't afford the school fees anymore as my father was the breadwinner so we agreed on that. My first day was a disaster at Vusisizwe Secondary Senior School( Awakening the  nation) in 2006, because i was not used to the way the students were doing things in the assembly it was way too different.  We studied up until matric in 2009 but we didn't make it for the National Senior Certificate. Two years later I worked at BOKOMO FOODS factory just to help my mother in the house and I was the only one working that time. I started working in 2011 May up until 2013 August  before i came to Chrysalis Academy in 07 September 2013. Come 2014 I want to become a Nurse and for me nursing it's not a course but a call or a Social Worker, that's what I want to become in life.

I want to make my mother proud because she had make me proud as her daughter. She raised me struggling day after day but she stayed strong playing a role of being a mother and the father at the very same time.
 

My River of Life Ondela

My name is Ondela Ndela  i was born in 1990 10 July in Butterworth Eastern Cape.I stay in Khayelitsha Site C at D section.I am not a talkative person but i like people.I like to lough and jokes am not a drinker or party person.I only drink ones a year or not at all.I don't have best friends because I never find someone to be.

I was raised by a single parent my mother I never grow up with my father but I know him.My parents broke up by the time my mother was pregnant of me.I have my sister my young brother and my baby sister but they have their own father and I am the first born.I started my primary school in Eastern Cape in 1996 because of my mother was not working.My aunt decided to take me with her to Welkome because she was leaving there with her husband.In that year which was 1998 I was going to start my grade 4 but the teachers sow that I am not ready for that class.I had to go back to grade 3 and at the end of the year I failed that class.The second year I reapet it again and I pased.In 2001 I came to Cape Town for the first time where my mother was.I started at the primary school Vuzamanzi from grade4 to grade 7 after that I went to Matthew Goniwe High in Khayelitsha at Site B.In 2007 I faile my grade10 that was very bad for me I was frastated but the following year I pased.I was very enjoying being at that school because I met good people those allways motivate each other.I Will never forget about them especial my last year in grade12 that was the best class I've ever been and I pased my matric with diploma.In 2011 I had to and look for work because I ddn't have money to go and stardy fether.Since my mather came to Cape Town she never being employed so after I finish my matric I had to put something on the table.I got employed at Makro as a cashier and I was a cashual in October untill February 2013.The other day I worked the whole day but I dont know what happened but at the end of the day  I was short.I went to hearing on the second week but I ddn't have the second chance so I was fired.My cousen told me about Chrysalis  I came to applay and I got accepted.

The reason why I came to Chrysalis I want to change my life.Not because I was a bad person I want to change my life the way it is and not for me only for my family as well.I want to achieve my dreams and be example also to my siblings and my community.After this couse I want to stardy and work at the same time which is next year.

my river of life

my name is ziyanda Portia Tontsi i'm 22 years old i'm going to tell you about who I am and the way I brought up by a single parent after the death of my father at an early age.

I was born on the 14th of may in 1991 at Kayamandi stellenbosch( in boland) I spent most of my life there,we are a family of 5 older sister whose now married, a younger sister, my mother and son.  my father passed away in 2001 at that time i was about 10/11 years old and was in grade 4.
I started my primary school in 1997-2004 at ikhaya primary situated at kayamandi, in 2005 I started high school at Kayamandi high and passed my matric in 2010 with a diploma. Relationship wisely I started dating when i was 15 years old and I'm still with the same guy from then and now we both 22 we have a baby boy,who I gave to on the 7th of July 2012, my pregnancy was not easy because I  had all kinds of illness and I gave birth on the 10th month going to 11th one but my baby came out healthy and strong.

I started my higher education at Northlink college doing public management its native course.  I passed my N4 and 5 and couldn't continue with my N6 because of financial problems and the pregnancy.I stopped attending school after they were closed in June because early July i had a baby and i had to a stay at mom for few months, but went back January of 2013 to do the next level then quit because of funds and my mother at that time really struggled to keep me in school but she tried her best.  And that was not the end, I applied at Chrysalis academy and my request was considered now I'm doing office administration and I'm liking it. My future plan is to go to varsity and study more if that doesn't workout i'll be looking for any kind of clerical work to support my family especially my mother and son they mean the world to me.


I strive to make better future for myself so that I can support my family and be good mother and a inspiration to my son. And also show other young mothers like me that having a child is not the end of your life but the start to have a purpose for life..


My life

My name is Debora Cazi. I`m from Riversdale, I`m 19 years old and i`m a very friendly person ,but if  you get me on my wrong side,I get angry very quickly...Something very strange happened to me  Thursday morning, the 18th of October,and I just want to tell what happened.

Some of the students of  13Bravo who chose office administration in their skill phase went to class that spesific morning.We played an activity and the activity was about they give you a picture and then out of that picture you must create a story.When it came to me to add a sentence about that picture,my face and my whole body just got hot.I suddenly forgot what I wanted to say and one of the ladies of Rlabs asked if I want to go drink water, so I went and go drink water.....I really didn`t know what happened to me.Something like that never happened to me before.After that I realised that I`m a really shy person and I don`t like to participate in something and I don`t like to do something in front of a lot of people.I decided that i can`t go so on anymore and i realised that i don`t want to be that person anymore, I want to become a better person, because if I`m going to stay that person I won`t come far in life.My grandmother always tell me that i must come out of that comfort zone and I didn`t listened to her and I didn`t take note of what she said,but now I  realized that she told the truth and I really want to become a better person,I want to pull up my socks and want to make a difference in my community.After class,one of my friends told me that I was busy to have a panic attact because that was some of the signs of a panic attack.....I fell a bit emotional after what happened to me and I think I really need help so that I can change my life because I don`t want to stay that person.I want to achieve my goals and I want to make my family proud.

I hope i will be a better person,make myself proud,won`t be that quiet girl and won`t be just a follower.Like Couch Vermeulen told me,i need to join the party....i think his right,i must join the party and that`s a big MUST.i believe in myself that i will be a better person in the end of the day.

The river of life

I am write about my life from the day i was born till were I am today ,my good and bad experience in life and everything I went through.

I was born on the 28/05/1993 at Knysna Hospital. have a nice family of six,, three brothers a lovely mom and a hard working daddy. I live with my Grandma and Grandpa. I love them a lot. I went to Sundrige Primary School and my grade 1 teacher's name was Miss Booysen, and I was never scared of going to school i loved school.At 2006 i went to the hoer school, Knysna Secondary School,i was so exited to go to school.but I started to date and going to party's and had lots of friends, but i always did well at school. In 2010 i did my matric in my matric year I mett a boyfriend at that time i think i where in-love so I do alot of things to fit in.I started to smoke dagga just for the fun and stay away from home every weekend so i failed my matric but i do have alot of good memories of it I went to the farewell party and I have lots of fun, but my life did not stand still in 2011 I did a ECD course it was fun, I volunteered at a creche call Bongani Pre School i love working with children.In 2012 I fell pregnant and I stoped working I gave birth to my sweet little baby boy on 03/01/2013, I have no regrets and the fact that I am a mother because I love my child me and his daddy are not together anymore and that hurt me a lot because I always say I want to marry the father of my child, but we have a good relationship and he is a good father to his son that is all that count for me. I believe if we are meant to be God will make a way for us to get back together again

I decide to come to Chrysalis Acadamy to be a  better person so that i can be a good mother to my baby also to gain skills and be able to get a good job to give my boy a good life and also give my family what they gave to me i love myself that is the reason I love others.

THE JOURNEY OF MY LIFE

Am Nobesuthu Sweetness Mtshobile  I was born in 24 December 1992. Am the 8 child to dad and
a 4 to mom I  have 4 sisters,4 brothers and 12 nephews. Am a mother of 1 cute angel.she put a smile on my face  every morning.

I grow up in Khayelitsha I started creche in Noluthando Day care when i was three and i started primary school in 1999. I was daddy's dearest I love my dad a lot I even favor him than mom  but had a good relationship with mom. I model in my primary i got to win first prize.

I started high school in Manyano high school while that as exciting  my father got sick 2 weeks after  he died.It was the biggest storm me and my family went through losing almost everything he owns and him at the same time.I started to get lonely and rude blaming people for his death.Out of all of that I had good,strong,confident mom who stood firm to rise us in a good way she became both mother and father at once were happy.

Life goes on  I pass my grade 12 in 2011 .In 2012 January I move to Queens Town to live with mom full time not holidays anymore and  I already had a 4 year long distance relationship  there with father of my daughter.Second month I was there I fall pregnant with my daughter people started to judge my saying she is not a good mom. Came 8  November 2012 I give birth to my angel and again in my life I had something to be happy about. Am at Chrysalis Academy and am happy am studying  office admin.


I want to farther my studies in the financial field  and one day I mean one day am gonna own my own insurance company.Am hoping not to became an absent  mother to my daughter course when focus I turn to forget what is important.

The journey of my life

Knowing yourself is the most important part in life and accepting where you come from and the way you have been raised and dont complain abaut the life that god has given you.

 I am avuzwa ngqola i was born on the 11-04-1993 at Butterworth Hospital i am the third born of 7 children from mother and fathers side.I started my primary in Eastern cape at Flower Junior Secondary School.
In 2003 i moved to Cape Town to stay with my aunt and i did my grade six at Walter Teka Primary School at Nyanga.In 2004 we moved from Nyanga to Delft and i started my grade 7 at Eindoven Primary School adn in 2006 i started my high school i carried on until my last grade.In 2010 i did my grade 12 and i failed my matric and in 2011 i west to west coast college i was doing business management but i droped out becouse of financial problems and in 2012 i went back to school to repeat my grade 12 and i passed with a Diploma i was so proud of myself,in 2013 i head about Chrysalis Academy from my couson and i applied and here i am now doing my course.

In the next coming years i want to make my future even brighter than it is and not forgeting where i`m coming from and i wont let people change who i am.

Unexpected turn

This story is about a young girl with a bright future ahead of her,but things were about to happen in her life that she was not expecting,her world was about to be turned upside down,but it was time for her face the truth.

I am a 25 year old woman now,strong and very loud and also very proud,but it took me a few years to get to this place. I was born in 1988.I had such a blessed life from the word go.I had anything and everything my heart desired. I still have two very loving parents,whom I am still living with. I have two sisters,both married,but we still have a very close relationship with each other.
After matriculating in 2006 from Schoonspruit Secondary School in Malmesbury. I applied myself and stated studying  at the Cape Peninsula University of Technology. I persuade my dream of becoming a teacher,it was a 4 year course. I've always loved working with children and this was something close to my heart,it was my dream job and it was perfect because I love to help children. After my third year of attendance,I met someone very special or at least that's what I thought at the time. He was a perfect gentlemen,he was kind,loving,caring,protecting. So in my eyes he was the perfect man for me,he had all the attributes I always look for in a person.
I fell very fast and hard for that man,I did everything and more for him.I put myself 2nd even 3rd when it came to him.After a few years of being together,he introduced me to a very dark world,a world I would never ever want to be associated with. I was so confused at the time and he told me so many things and of course I believed him or everything he promised me,that was only the begining of my hardship with that man. I was caught up in that world for such a long time,I didn't know how to get out.Our relationship started fading before my eyes,he started abusing me emotionally and later it started getting physical. A lot happened after that I can't even describe what I went through,but I will reveal more soon...

Life kind of hits you when you least expect it,in ways you could never have imagined,but it takes a strong and very dedicated person to rise above that and look ahead and start fresh. It is up to you if you want to learn from your mistakes,your hardship and the problems you've had in the past to become a better person in everything you do in life.

my river of life

My name is Bolekwa i was born in 1991 we are eight at home i have five brothers and two sisters i never had a happy childhood because i been through a lot being in a accident and losing my mother was a big breakdown  i face so many things had too-much anger.


I bolekwa live with my family and in 2000 i went to primary up to grade 9 many things were happening at that time i had to move from one primary to another becouse i was in eastern cape had to move from eastern cape to western cape and in 2003 i had an accident i was in a burning house me an my siblings  so we spend four to five months in hospital  and in 2006 i lost my mother that was very hard for me becouse i was living with her but most of the time she was traveling becouase she was a business women after her dearth i felt so alone  like i had no-one even if my family was there but i still felt empty but i kept pushing myself kept pretending to be fine even  though the pain was killing me inside . in 2008 i was in high school it was very hard becouse i made wrong choices and i chose a wrong subjects then i failed  but in 2009 i repeated grade 10 and i passed in2010-2012 i was still in high school  i passed my grade 12 never thougth i could becouse i was having family problems and in 2012-2013 i worked at ackermans and in countryfair i was not happy there so i decided to quit and sit at home so my sister told me about chrysalis academy an i apply nw Im still here in chrysalis.


I wont let my past determine my future the hardship that i went through would help me move foward and become a better person i just want to multi- task to work an further my studies so that in five years i could have my own house goog job and not forgeting to help those who does not have and make a change in my community thank you.




THE RIVER OF MY LIFE.

 It has  the start that is much easier to get in, but when you are so near inside you look back just to measure how far are you, and if its better to continue crossing it or you rather go back because of its deepness! never the the less its just about do it or not by just deciding.


In my life from being a small kid, i think i was brave enough and my family believed in me especially my grandmother.But as i grew up i met challenges that changed me a lot,from 1998 the time my grandmother passed away, it made a huge difference in my life, because
i was not used in my biological parents as they were staying here in Cape town, we were in Eastern Cape by that time.So as we are five children and i am the last born we had to split,others came here in Cape town to stay with my father and me and my brother we went to stay with my grandmother's sister where life started to be sour.In 2000 we also came here in Cape town to stay with my father although things didn't go the way we thought,we find our father staying with another woman who became our step mother and we didn't had a choice we had to accept her and love her for the sake of our father,but one thing that tormented us is that, the respect and love that we gave her she never return it back, instead she treated us in a badly and abusing way.In 2003 we made means of investigating our biological mother and we find her, that was the day started to declare the happiness and peace in ourselves.


So as we were in high hopes by the time we find our mother, we were saying NO MORE SUFFERING, guess what we seemed like we were dreaming for all the time we were picturing ourselves with her, because she never show  the love we needed from the the day we meet her,but life moved on and now we are no longer focusing on that, we are just working on what can rebuild us or bring back the unity  to the whole family not on one side family and there no grudges, we are looking forward for happy moments we also believe that TIME is the best HEALER because those hardships made us strong today


RIVER OF MY LIFE

INTRODUCTION

I'am going to share my River of my Life. I,am going to touch the following points. Where I was born, grown up,challenges I've faced and the happiest days i enjoyed and also the one of the important things my future.

BODY

I'am Bonelwa Gumeke 20yrs old female, I was born in 1993/19/10 at Empilisweni in Sterkspruit. lived in Nkopane location. When i was 2yrs old i moved to Cape Town in Stellenbosch, Kayamandi i lived with my mother Elsa Gumeke and my little brother Mihle Gumeke, we are only three at home.

In 1999 i went to Ikaya Primary School did my grade 1 to grade 3, then in 2002 i moved back to Sterkspruit, Herschel in Nkopane Junior Secondary school did my grade 4 to 7.
I lived with my grandmother, uncle,cousin brother and sister. In 2002/12/28 my father passed away stepped
by someone he was living with, it was hurtful even though i didn't knew him much but i did knew him in the away i felt like its a punishment because i loosed someone that was close to my heart and didn't have enough of him even now i'am still logging for my father's love

In 2008 i moved back to Cape Town did my grade 10-12 at Kayamandi High School. I passed my Matrix 2O12 but didn't apply because of the financial problems .
I did netball,running and joined choir at school. And in my community joined drama and Acapella choir (Gospel choir) and also did hip pop classes in US hall.

CONCLUSION

After all the things i went through i had about the Chrysalis academy where i'am doing my Office Administration, physical and mental training, outdoor phase cause now and many more. I'am enjoying each and everything i'am doing here even though its hard but i'am trying my best. And for the future i want to study as a social worker, be a successful women and also be proud of myself.





MY LIFE JOURNEY

My name is Busiswa Memani and i was born in 1990-01 July and i was born in Eastern Cape so i stayed there for 4years before coming back to George were my parents were because they have left me with my aunty for 2years, by the time i came to George i was already in grade 2 but it was in meddle of the year bt my father went and negotiate with the principal of the school to take me and fortunately enough i was taken in Tyholora primary school so i studied there my lower grades.

And buy the time i was suppose to go to the farewell bcouse i was leaving that school to high school my grandfather died on a day before the farewell and i was so disappointed and vulnerable because i was so close to my grandfather so it was such a terreble time fore me but never the less i managed to get through that.

then i went to high school and it was so terrible for me because i had to make new friend and my school mates were a bit older than us and i was scared that they might bully us, but none of that happened they were so nice to us even though the were some of them who were kind of naughty because by the time i was  i was in grade 9 i was burned with a lighter in my hair by the guy i did know but luckily my friends saw him and they quickly stop the burning on my hair that was the most tragic part of my life in high school.

in 2007 my father was retrenched at work and now we were having problems at home financially and emotionally so i decided to get myself part time job on school holidays   and i was in grade 9 buy then and that's what i was  doing to help my family up until metric, but i did not make it in grade12

And now  i decided to focus on myself and do what i need to do in order to survive in life, re-write my metric and go to University to study more because i wanna be a social worker so that i  will take care of other people who are suffering in life, i just wanna change someones life even if its one person because i know God will bless me for that

I am a Overcomer:)!!!!!

My name is Carmen Plaatjies and I am from Ashton. I'm 18 years going on 19 years old. When people look at me they'll see a very caring,loving,friendly and most importantly always smiling person..Some people might even say my life is easy because I get everything I want and I still have both my parents...What they don't know is that under my smile there is a lot of heartache and a girl with a broken heart.....

The first heartbreaking story started when I was about 15 years old.I can still remember it like it was yesterday...My innocence was stolen from me by two men which I knew every well.They were friends of my cousins.My cousins was also in the room while these two men were busy raping me.I kept on calling out their names but they wouldn't do anything..They just stood there and stared at me while I was yelling and begging them to help me.I was crying my eyes out...A man that was walking pass the house were it happened heard me and came to my rescue.He called the police and the policeman that showed up was a family friend.He took me home and left so that I can tell my family what happened.The saddest part is when I told my father he got really angry at me and started to attack me.I got beaten so badly that I thought I was going to die...Anyway I survived the first story of my life but maybe I didn't took the second story so well....there is still lots more to tell but it will have to wait....FOR NOW.......

I thought that I won't be strong enough to handle being raped and I really wanted to give up on my life but God made it possible for me to survive whet happen....And he made it possible to keep on smiling to avoid people knowing the pain I went through......

My River of life

My name is Geraline Stroebel i live in Knysna family of five.
I was born on the 01/02/1993.
I'm living with my mom and dad and im the oldest.

when I was a baby I did 'nt go 2 crèche when I turn six I was at Sunrige Primary school and when I was finishing primary school I went to high school Knysna Secondary school in 2010 I dropped out of school was at home for three year and in that three years I worked at checkers but just for two weeks did not even say I was leaving or resigning I was just leaving that place.And this year I also worked with my dad i was
really enjoying it.

And three or four months ago my uncle told me about chrysalis academy and then I told myself that this is my change to make a different in my life and to fine my in a self and also to reach for my goal and dream

When I leave chrysalis academy I want to be a change person and better and I want a better life want to sit in my own office in front of my own laptop or computer I want to be a Successful Business Women.

My experience

My name is samarihetta and my surname is Jantjies and I am 21 years old. I just want to share my latest experience here at Chrysalis.

I was very scared and nerves on the first day. But as time go i meet a friend who gives me the power to carry on.Somedays you just feeel to go home but then u relize its for your own best and there is a family that you do it for and what me the most inspire is that song that say that no body told that the road would be easy.Iam done with the 2 weeks outdoor believe me that it was not easy but i do it with all the power i had it just take a believer to be a achiever . 

Here at Chrysalis I became a stronger person and I also learned stuff that I dont know and it feels good to know that u dont even know anyone at first. Now we are a big family, all of us go through the same stuff and no one is better than the other because we are all sisters. I never knew that I can walk so far or even sleep in a bush outside but thanks to Chrysalis I overcame my fears.

There are just a few weeks left before graduation and I will give my everything to make history here because I really enjoy things here and I like the skills.

My first day of intake at chrysalis academy

My three months away from home im so sad about leaving.Me and my mommy on our way to chrysalis academy on Saturday morning the 7 of September 2013.

The Friday of the 6 September everything went quick.Me and my mommy went from shopping center to shopping center to buy all the things i still need for my three months course.At that moment i was not that emotional even though i was leaving the next morning.Sjo my family treated me very special like a queen that Friday.I can actually see that my mommy was very emotional about the leaving and it was my first time leaving home  for three months all on my own.At the night of the 6th of September my mommy was packing my bag while i was busy taking a long relax-able bath and washing my hair.Me and my mommy went to sleep at 23:00 that night and we must get up at 03:00 the next morning.The two of us spend some quality time together that night.The morning of the 7 September i wake up with a smile but actually very emotional because i'm not a fan of goodbyes,saying goodbye to my daddy and sister was very sad.We are on our way with the taxi my tears are falling.As we get to the academy i get more and more emotional.Because i didn't  know how to interact with 180 other girls i don't really  know.


And so my mommy must give me off to chrysalis academy.Sjo i was crying and wanted to go home with my mommy again.Ai and today im missing my family so badly im looking forward to see them on Sunday at the first visitation even though Sunday seems so far away.

A life changing experience

My name is Nasreen Latief. I am 25years old and live in Paarl. I am a mother of a 5year old boy and 11month old girl. My children are my pride and joy and I strive to give them a bright future.

I am currently unemployed and stay with both my parents. On 7th September 2013 I enrolled in the Chrysalis Academy program where I'm doing a 3month course in order to improve my life skills. Chrysalis Academy specialize in changing the lives of the youth to the better by unleashing their potential in order for them to be successful young people. The academy plays a huge role in empowering, motivating, disciplining and  changing the living circumstances of the students.
At first coming to Chrysalis was a challenge to me, but I started adapting to the program and I feel proud of my progress. I'm following a healthy diet and became physically fit. I am stronger mentally and emotionally and I became aware and mindful about things happening in my life and environment. All of us students stay on the campus as the academy are extremely strict and have alot of rules we need to follow and obey. I haven't seen my kids in the past 6weeks and I miss them to bits! It's hard being separated from them, but I'm sacrificing in order for them to have the stability and security they need.

I am in the middle of my course and yet I have seen big changes within myself. I feel empowered and positive. I have the potential to a brighter future!  

Happiness

Here I am a present from above a meaningful person made by God a Bundle of joy and happiness a special gift to my mother.

Like that little girl growing up so fast I still feel my mommy cuddling me holding me tight under her wings Shes my protector my tour guide through life. My hero.

Every step in my life I took she stood by my side, counting it like i'm always going slow.
Dear God grand her for many more years because I can't picture my life without her.

Today I've come to my senses of seeing her as my mother the one that I adore and what she actually meant to me this past years.

Because of her I am what I am today the angel sent from God a Special person!!!

Being part of her life is the greatest present ever shes also my meaningful special mother!!!!!!!!


CHOOSE CHRYSALIS.

Chrysalis is the act of choosing.this means that the one who choose,has the power to DECIDE,to SELECT,to PREFER one thing from the other.Anyone who choose has the power to say YES or NO.

It is important therefore to make a right choice.If you make a bad choice you will suffer the consequences.If you make a good choice you will rejoice because of your good choice you have made.So what is your choice?Is your choice good or it is always bad?Isn't good to choose something good for your own good?Young as i may being.I have made my choice.I have chosen to come to chrysalis.my choice is simple and straight forward.I know my choice is good for sure.Sometimes you must know your STANDARD,your VISION,and your GOALS in life.Choose life not death.If you choose life you will enter good things in a positive outlook.

Now I urge you 13 Bravo to make a right choice.stay away from wrong things.become an expect at saying No.This is for your sake,for my sake,for somebody's sake and everybody's sake.Let us choose chrysalis  

A Dance

It feels good... 
To move, to dance across the floor; 
a dance just for me. 
A dance that leaves behind a trail... 
A trail that means so much more than the eye can see or mind can know but only the heart will feel as it remembers all the emotions of good and bad wonderful and sad... 
Memories 


...Memories of what life gave and took away or just the mear thoughts
But now as I makes my way towards the end before I go I let you know, that no matter what that has come your way you will end up strong anyway.

my river of life

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